During this Holiday season, one of the to do’s – is to shop, shop, shop for perfect gifts.
It should be a fun, happy experience.
However so many feel stressed with the number of gifts to buy for each person on their list, and how much money it will cost.
And the email, social media, and marketing messages keep coming and coming! Hurry Hurry! 2 Days only! For a Limited time! 20% off everything! 50% off today only! Just for You!
Just Click Click Click. Never been easier to buy and keep buying. So we do.
However, is More really Better?
A personalized, thoughtful and meaningful gift touches the receiver in so many ways.
They feel the love and know it came from your heart.
Sometimes just a card will do.
So many beautiful, well written ones are on the market – and you can also make your own.
The choices are endless.
Give thought to your shopping list. Don’t just do it because you always have.
A carefully selected gift – and not one that needs to be expensive – can bring so much joy and create memories.
If you are a great baker, give a gift of your specialties.
If you are into crafts, make a special ornament.
If you are a writer, gift your books.
Find out what a person’s interests are.
If someone loves beauty products, you can find that perfect lipstick shade or eyeshadow palette.
If they like fragrances, gift them with a new scent.
If you love being with friends and family, host a party or get together.
Make a donation to your favorite charity or cause.
As I was decorating our home, and carefully unwrapping the ornaments, I cherished and smiled at every one of the decorations. Incredible memories of places, people, and underlying it all – LOVE. I felt it. It surrounded me. So beautiful. With holiday music in the background, the scents of pine and fir throughout the house, the twinkling of lights – all so magical.
That is the true meaning of the holidays. Share Love, Be Kind, Show Compassion, Be at Peace, Find your Joy, Help Others in Need.
Embrace the Season with all the festivities.
And remember to Enjoy. Reduce your stress. More is not Better.
With Love and Light,
Unsteady movement, conflict, confusion.
On a recent flight from Hong Kong to Los Angeles, the pilot announced before departing that we would make record time with the tail winds, however we would also experience more turbulence! And yes, he was so right.
The Good with the Bad
Ying and Yang
Black and White
Sour and Sweet
Cold and Hot
Left and Right
Opposites do co-exist and at times join together.
I chanted and prayed quite a bit during that 12 hour flight in which we did experience long lasting turbulence. I realized that in our day to day life, we also experience similar turbulence.
It could appear as emotional or physical discomfort.
It could be something visually scary or unpleasant.
It could be barking dogs, noise from trees being cut down, thunder, wind, cars honking, sirens blaring.
So many outside influences that can disturb us.
However I have found that all these things are part of living.
It is how I choose to handle them, react to them, that make the difference in my state of being.
So as I chanted and prayed through the flight turbulence, I promised myself that I would use similar techniques when dealing with the turbulence in life.
Take a moment to breathe. Acknowledge what is happening. Make the decision of how to handle it that will keep you the most calm.
As we are in the Holiday Season with all its festivities, joy, love, harmony and celebration, Remember that we could also feel confused, lonely, overwhelmed, stressed, and pressured.
Take a moment to step back. Reassess the situation. Write down your plan of action. Ask for help. Delegate. Say “NO”.
You can handle it.
It may be a bit rocky at times, but you will get to the other side.
The turbulence is only temporary.
With Love, Peace, Harmony and Joy,
Every few months I take the time to go through my wardrobe and edit items out. I have to admit it is not easy for me. I have had great success and fun in mixing and matching clothes from years ago with new finds that work beautifully! However since semi retiring, I have found that some items I just do not need anymore. I also found that either I shrunk or the clothes got bigger! Maybe a combination of the two. So off to the tailor to take some things in if possible. As for the rest ………. time to clear out and donate!
How many black jackets and pants do I need? True, black was a staple and sometimes a required color in a business setting. So I needed options. Now, with a simpler life style and more casual dress, I can let some of them go.
White T shirts – some not so white anymore! Bye Bye.
Tie dye and bright colored tunics for over leggings – adorable and great – however have not worn in years! I tried them on and even though the outfit was cute, it wasn’t me anymore. I realized that my preferences at 65 are different than when I was in my 40’s. I contemplated repurposing some into bathing suit cover ups – I was trying my best to hold onto them. What a conversation! End result – Toss!
Since I like to protect my clothes, some are hanging in garment bags – of which are not see through. So I forgot what was in them! I found some real treasures that I will now wear. It was like going shopping!
I have to admit though that I even found 2 items with the store tags still on them!!!! How many years have I had them hanging in my closet(s)? About 3 moves ago!!!! WOW!
What else have I been holding onto that no longer serves me? True, most of the clothes are in good condition. Since I prefer quality and unique designs – not fast fashion, clothes are able to go from season to season, year to year. However if I am not using them, someone else could.
In addition to letting go of clothes, I thought about what else I was holding onto that no longer was necessary.
Lots to think about. Cleaning out my closet helped me to clean out old thinking, reaffirm my desires, objectives and dreams.
I realized that taking this time to clean, refresh and adjust was important on so many levels.
If you have not done so recently – I encourage you to clean out your closet. Or your drawer. You will have fun, learn a lot, and feel so good afterwards.
With Love and Light,
As we set our clocks back 1 hour on Sunday or before bed on Saturday evening, I forgot about how the adjustment would impact me. True, I was looking forward to earlier sunrises and morning light. However, not so excited about the earlier sunsets and onset of darkness in the evening.
I definitely noticed the shift in my energy and vibrations and the vibrations around me in just a few days. I woke up earlier, excited to observe the morning light. I wanted to get out earlier and feel the days warmth radiate through my body and soul.
We are all connected! We pick up on the energy and vibes of people, places, things and activities. Notice next time how you feel when you are around negative, grumpy, rude people. Then notice how you feel when around positive, peaceful, inspiring people. Big difference, right?
Then notice how you feel when you are stuck in traffic, hurrying to catch a plane, late for an appointment, caught up in a frenzy.
Far different from when you are running along the beach, taking a walk in the forest, cooking, meditating, listening to soothing music.
You are feeling and responding to the vibrations around you. Choose wisely. Gravitate towards people and places that energize and uplift you. That is why my husband and I live at the beach! It is our energy field that best resonates with who we are and how we want to live our life. Even if you are unable to make it a reality for you now, dream and visualize it and believe that it will come to fruition.
And when you are in a circumstance where the vibration is not comfortable, remove yourself from it, or at least protect yourself by surrounding your aura in light and love. I call it my invisible shield. It protects me so I am not negatively impacted by what is happening around me. My shield though, is flexible enough to allow me to remain sensitive and compassionate in my dealings. My shield has helped me through many situations through out my life, and I have recommendated it to many colleagues.
Reflect on your vibration and energy field. Identify what works best for you. Develop your strategy to make it your reality.
With Light and Love and Healthy Vibrations,
In reading an article recently about aging joyfully, I came across this quote:
“I can because I do”.
I was struck by it as we usually say it in reverse – I do because I can.
However Take a Moment to reflect on this powerful statement: I can because I do!
Last week, I wrote about riding a bicycle and the importance of moving forward to stay balanced and upright. You continue pedaling and with each rotation are moving and doing. We go from bicycles with training wheels, to 2 wheels, and for some 1 wheel! We practice, practice and practice some more. And finally – we stay up. I can because I do.
What does it mean to be doing? It refers to the activities in which a person engages, putting forth effort.
Synonyms are: performing, carrying out, accomplishing, achieving, implementing, completing.
So what are you doing?
I have always been an advocate for exercise and activity as components of a healthy and joy filled life. It doesn’t matter what the sport, whether you are competitive or just a casual for yourself participant. The important thing is to participate. Do not just sit on the sidelines watching others do it. Of course, one can be inspired by the achievements of others. Use what you observe in others as the motivator to find your own exercise passion. Whether it is dancing, yoga, running, walking, cycling, skiing, surfing, triathlons, football, baseball, hockey, golf, swimming – there are so many activities to choose from. You can go solo, or find a team sport, find a gym, sign up for a class, watch a video. So many options and available resources at all price points – even FREE!
Once you begin, the magic happens. You may feel awkward at first, get a few sore muscles, feel like everyone is staring at you. So what! Keep at it, have some fun and LIVE LIFE.
Find what interests you and like Nike says in their tag line – Just Do It!!!!
And just like from “The Little Engine That Could (an American fairytale existing in the form of several illustrated children’s books and movies) – the phrase “I think I can”, for me has converted into “Yes I can”!!!
With Light and Love,
Do you feel it? Can you see it? Do you hear it? Can you smell it?
Yes to all! Happy Autumn. We accept and appreciate the subtle changes happening around us as we embrace the season.
For us, living in a beach community, we love the crispness to the air, the incredible sunsets, the waves crashing louder and higher as storms impact the surrounding area, and the scent of salt as the waves mist on us. Summer brings more people to the beaches, and although we love seeing the joy on everyone’s faces, especially the children, we totally now love the peace and quiet and vacant sands as we run along the water daily.
I have always loved the beaches in the “off seasons”. Growing up on the East coast, I can remember strolling all by myself along deserted beaches, even in the rain! I loved it. It is the only place I do not mind it when there are grey skies or drizzle. Now, living in a Southern California beach community, I continue to stroll, run, and enjoy being by the water. It is my energy zone. I feel at peace.
As for the seasons, I love Fall the most! Not too cold, not too hot- just right. The marine layer in the morning and at night, with sunny days in the middle. Add a little jacket, shawl, or zip sweater to layer, and then adjust as needed as the day goes on.
Pumpkin patches are set up, Halloween costumes being advertised and on full display, and yes, even Christmas is full speed ahead.
Yes, all the festivities of the upcoming Holidays have kicked off. However, let us take the time to just be. To just enjoy the beauty of this time of year.
Give thanks for another day of being alive and well.
Start and end each day with Gratitude and Appreciation for who you are, who you are becoming, what you have, and all that is.
Be kind, be compassionate, be mindful. Smile!
Spread your joy into the world and feel the richness of Autumn.
With Light and Love,